from the UK, pharosparcel.com has excellent prices. I use them regularly in the mean time.
From the US, USPS is the way to go, but tracking is essentially non-existent. I had some techflex posted recently from furry letters and the extent of the tracking was "it left our facility". They didn't know when it arrived, either. Transit time was around 5 working days from TN.
UPS' tracking is fan-fuckin' tastic. Their express services are also that. I had a present.. bought tuesday afternoon over the phone, delivered to my parents wed am, pickup less than 90 mins after deal gone through with pharos, delivery is scheduled for friday a.m. between 10 and 11. They called me to confirm that, too.
When I bought my sub from CSS, TNT shipped. They were great, too, even if they "couldn't find" a six storey twin-stair block, where there's only a school on the other side of the road ?!. They dealt with customs nicely.
TNT were also ultrafast from NL to here. UK post is flaky; sometimes stuff is here overnight; my heatshrink: ordered via the 'bay on Sunday, here on Thursday via regular post is pretty good. Germany is a lot worse and significantly more expensive.
Fedex are currently handling a package from the UK here and their tracking is so bad it's not funny. It's probably left the UK; I don't know.
Customs: They are a pain. We have to pay at this end, generally at least VAT ("Sales Tax") of 15% in the UK, 19% in Germany, 22% here. They will also charge on the delivery charges in many EU countries.
The limits are being raised to €150 at the end of this year, so if it's less than that they won't bother any more. This is v.good
Payment: PP has us by the short'n'curlies. They twist on the transfer fees - they'll take a slice when you move from any currency to another - but you can run balance amounts in all currencies if you want.
There are other systems out there - in the EU, it's just a regular transfer cost within the Euro zone - so I can transfer to Germany for peanuts, it just takes three working days to arrive.
Packing:
- for amps and similar, wood is not to be underestimated.
- for speakers, those clips they are delivered in is great.
just because it comes in its original box, please assume nothing about the suitability of that box for shipping: i.e. add it into another box and bubblewrap between them!
The worst part is that stuff can move - if you have to, FFS - use expandy foam, old blankets, camp mats, whatever it takes. It won't be expensive and it's a lot less hassle than dealing with an unhappy buyer.
HtH.
Bret